- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biscuit_tin
- https://www.vam.ac.uk/articles/biscuit-tins-a-bite-sized-history/#slideshow=562394146&slide=0
- https://www.smithsonianmag.com/arts-culture/the-art-of-the-biscuit-tin-171494824/
Monday, October 6, 2025
Tin Types
Thursday, October 2, 2025
Kafkaesque Life
Outfit Info: Son de Flor Classic dress in Venice Floral
Monday, September 29, 2025
Right On Track
It's been a while since I've done a Spending Update. In 2024, I decided it was finally time to rein in my spending. You can't change what you don't acknowledge, so my first step was to take a whole year to track every penny and analyze my habits and patterns. It was eye opening and extremely helpful. Once I saw my patterns I could set a budget and start sticking to it.
Not to give away my progress report with the title of this post, but I feel like I'm on track with my spending this year. I've had a few slips of course, because I'm not perfect, but overall, I'm really proud of my progress and determined to keep going and do even better in 2026. While I will admit there were some really amazing sales or bargains on items I'd been eyeing for months or years and I did end up spending more than I budgeted for, even that seems like progress because it was all stuff I'd been watching and waiting for; I made zero impulse buys for an entire year! And not once did I sit glued to a screen waiting for the absolute feeding frenzy of a collection drop.
As far as sticking to my budget, the thing that has really made it easier is that I just haven't bought from luxury brands. I can still thrift regularly and stay well within my spending limits by simply avoiding all my favorite but insanely pricey shops. This little resolution has slashed my spending in half and not least of which because those are the very shops that do those mad drops.
I've had a lot of challenges this year, some really difficult times and it's been really tough to take it all without shopping as my emotional crutch. However, I've been working really hard at just feeling the feelings, especially the really tough stuff, and processing it without any crutches. Do I love that? Nope, not at all. Is it good for me? Well, it sucks in the moment, but in the long run, I know that I will be healthier for going through these things in this way, processing my feelings rather than using something to dull the pain or delay the difficulty.
With only a few months left in 2025, I feel really good about how far I've come this year and am more determined than ever to keep it up in 2026. We still have a ways to go before the start of the new year though, so I'll definitely be talking about my budgeting year again.
Thursday, September 25, 2025
Autumn Work Wear
Monday, September 22, 2025
A Year of Change
I see the young people, the teens and early 20s, in my life feeling lost and desperately searching. I tell them it's OK not to have everything figured out yet and that most people feel this way at this age. I tell them to be patient and have some faith that things will work out. And, yet, here I am at twice their age and then some, suddenly feeling that same kind of lostness and wishing like crazy I could just take a quick peek at life a few miles down the road so I know not just continually hope that things will turn out alright.
At times like these, when life is moving so quickly and everything is changing, it's important for me to: slow down. breathe. pray. listen. As much as I wish I could know the future, always make the right decisions, or at least have some measure of control over the outcome, I simply cannot. Life is an amazing journey with so many twists and turns. There are seasons of grief and seasons of joy and neither one lasts. Things are always changing and that is the great beauty of it all.
Outfit Info: Bordeaux Connie dress by Retrospec'd from Modern Millie, Shoes from B.A.I.T. Footwear