Milreason Peplum

Another lovely dress in this lovely dusty blue from Milreason.  I love collaborating with Milreason because their dresses make me look amazing!  The best thing about this dress is that it solves a little problem I always have with wiggle dresses.

Wiggle dresses always pucker across the legs for me and I don't care for the effect.  They should be snug, but just say the word puckering and you know it's not good.

This little dress has a nice smooth skirt, super flattering silhouette with that shape enhancing peplum, and just look at those feminine tie straps.  It's all love with this dress and all for less than $30.  Just one more reason to love Milreason.

Shopping Info: Milreason Stretchy Cocktail Party Dress for Women Knot Spaghetti Strap Bodycon Midi Pencil Dress Women’s 1950s Dresses-$28.99

Date Expectations

In January I heard a million and half people say that 2020 was over and 2021 was going to be better.  Has it?  My year thus far has been just as chaotic and stressful as last year.  We're only two months in, so I haven't given up hope, but I am sort of white knuckling it and praying for spring.

Ok, we had a year of lockdowns and now a full week of snow days. Plus I had a cold and a broken toe to contend with while trying to feed the animals and water them and keep my house warm on my snow days.  After all that, I'm good; I'm all set.  I'd like to go outside now and do things again.

In the meantime, while 2021 gets itself sorted, One last red dress before February slips away.  There are two times of year when I like to roll out the red dresses: Christmas and Valentine's.  I thought of going out and taking some red dress pics in all the snow just to have them in advance for Christmas, but the temperature was in the negative numbers.  I love taking blog photos but I also love not having pneumonia or frost bite, so snow photos will just have to wait.

I still haven't had a night out for Valentine's day or just for a general date night due to the extreme winter weather we're having and I am so, so looking forward to it when it finally happens.  I know exactly where we're going and what I'm ordering and which art exhibit we'll be visiting afterwards.  (A lot of the museums in our area are now open by appointment.)

The outfit is still undecided, but this red peplum wiggle dress from Collectif is high in the running.  I have a similar dress from Stop Staring, but this one has a thinner fabric with a little more stretch and I love a peplum to bring balance to my shape. 

I don't mind the wait for things that matter.  In fact I think it makes them all the sweeter when they do arrive, and as I've mentioned, it gives me time to sort out all the details instead of, "Where do you want to go?  I don't know, where do you want to go?"  Nuh, no.  When we do finally go out, it will be with purpose and confidence and expectation.  

Dress from: Collectiflondon.com

Leggings 101: Prints and Peplums

Body insecurity.  I'm positive we all have it.  No matter what your age or your shape or how much (or how little) time you spend at the gym, we all have things about ourselves that we don't love, to put it mildly.  Each of us has a natural shape and while time at the gym and cooking wholesome meals can help, something we will just have to learn to accept if we can't learn to love them.  My body issues are no secret, but I long ago abandoned hating my shape and instead learned to work with it.  It was an epiphany when I was in a store and tried on something that looked unspeakably awful.  I scrutinized myself in the wrap around mirrors for a moment before unemotionally saying, "This dress is just totally wrong for my shape."  My mother was with me and she looked at me wide eyed for a moment and said, something along the lines of "wow, I've never heard you criticize the dress instead of yourself."  I froze.  This was a big moment.  Overcoming that hurdle has opened the door to more freedom.  We all have those things that we think, "I can't wear that."  But, what if you could?  And what if you could not only wear it, but wear it well.  I'm the queen of breaking down those mental blocks that say, "I can't,"  I didn't start out that way and sometimes, looking back, I'm surprised by how many of those walls I've put up over the years, it's part of the reason I started this blog.  I hope that maybe if you see me trying something new, and tearing down those old, negative thoughts, it will help you to do the same.  So, today's post focuses on an item of clothing that many women fear, Leggings.  

Tip 1. Pattern & Texture.  If you're feeling a little insecure about wearing leggings, the first thing I'd suggest is finding a pair in a thicker fabric.  The more sheer the leggings are, the less they'll be able to tastefully shape and conceal trouble zones.  Unless you're an all start athlete, you probably have at least a little bit of bounce to your legs. and If you're looking to mask some of the bumps in this area, consider leggings with a texture.  These Black Animal Crocodile Print Leggings in Hazel from FemmeLuxe fit the bill for both a nice thicker weight fabric that shapes and conceals and that has a wonderful crocodile texture (not just a print, but a textured legging) that does a fantastic job of masking creases and bumps.  (Another great thing about these leggings from FemmeLuxe is that they come in lots of different colors!)

Tip 2:  Heels.  In my general, day to day life, I'm more of a practical person when it comes to footwear, but I can't deny the effect that a pair of heels have on a girl.  Heels make those calves look longer and leaner.  They make your bum look perkier and thanks to the balance it takes to wear heels, they naturally make you stand up straight.  Good posture alone improves appearance and fools your brain into thinking you feel confident even when the truth is...not so much.  I chose a pair of burgundy ruffled bow peep toes for this outfit from Enzo Angelini.

Tip 3.  Top it Off.  All tops are not equal for an outfit like this one.  My typical go to for leggings and skinny jeans has been a tunic top.  You know the type I mean, not just a little loose, bordering on baggy, but long enough to cover the widest part of my thighs.  Well, no more.  If you decide on a tunic, wear it with a belt, or choose something with a more fitted cut so that you don't get lost in it.  Since tunics have been my go-to, I opted out this time and decided to wear peplum top.  Even though it doesn't cover my thighs at their widest point, (gasp!)  the waist fitted at the narrowest part of my natural waist, followed by that nice little flared bottom helps to mask my pear shape bringing balance to it.

Tip 4.  Accessorize Appropriately.  Since I don't want to cover up that peppy peplum, I chose a crop jacket and the fact that it's faux leather just gives it a little bit of an edge.  Add these sunnies with attitude and you'd never know I had any body insecurities at all.

Shopping Info: Black Animal Crocodile Print Leggings - Hazel from FemmeLuxeFinery.co.uk, Crop Jacket, Enzo Angelini Heels and forever 21 peplum top from ThredUp.  Use my link to sign up and save $10 off your first order, Sunglasses from: SHEIN