Thursday, April 16, 2026

Same Stuff, Different Outfit

Starting my year with a No Buy (I promise I'm going to stop talking about it soon, but not in this post) had a lot of positive outcomes.  For one thing, it took a lot of the guess work out of what i was going to wear.  As in previous years, I did a seasonal capsule wardrobe and just rotated through it for three months.  Of that capsule, I had about 6 work dresses/outfits that I wore on a bi-weekly rotation, and it saved me time in the morning by not having to figure out what to wear.

Another thing it did was really forced me to shop my closet a lot and I found that I really enjoyed it.  At this point in the game, I really don't need to buy anything other than replacing my shoes each year as they wear out.  Anytime I want to experiment or mix things up all I really just need to dig through my storage bins to find the things I want to make an outfit work.

For my No Buy challenge, I decided that all the targeted ads I was seeing were part of the problem.  I knew I had to strictly limit my social media time in order to avoid the temptation from all the shopping ads.  It worked like a charm...in a way.  I decided to draw, cover lampshades, and be creative instead of shopping.  However, the depression and anxiety that accompanied being denied the dopamine hits I get from shopping and scrolling social media were tough to take.  I had to feel all my feelings, deal with all the situations without my retail therapy or doom scrolling to decompress.  Include in that mix the stress of the holidays, two medical emergencies and a family trip and I really struggled to cope without a crutch for a while.  But, I made it.  And now I know I can.  And that was probably the greatest success to come from this experiment

Getting back on social media, I realized, I really can't have it in my life.  Literally nearly every post in my feed and every email in my inbox, is an ad for something wanting to take my money.  No thank you, I don't want to go back to the desensitization and the mindless buying.  Plus, I don't want to go back to losing hours of my life each day and $$$ from my bank account to the scroll effect.  

Now, this is the part where I must reiterate that I will always love fashion and will likely continue to set aside money for buying clothes, as my break from my No Buy has proven, but I am continuing to be more selective and mindful about what I bring into my life.  To that end, today's outfit is entirely "old" thrift finds of last year and all the way back to things I purchased more than a decade ago.

Normally the blog is the testing ground, where I put outfits together and if I like how they look in photos, then wear them out in the world.  However, since I haven't been doing outfit photos over the winter months, I saw this original fashion photo of this skirt, decided to put my own version together and have been wearing it to work before featuring it here.  I really love this outfit and I'm glad it looks as good in the photos as it looked in my head.
Outfit Info: j.crew top, maybe skirt, remake cardi, seeing flats

Monday, April 13, 2026

Maximum Audacity

Clothes aren't just clothes for me; they're self expression, creativity, composition, self esteem, and so much more.  If you like your clothes on the basic side, that's fine by me, although I would wonder why you're at this blog if you don't like bold prints and colors.  I will concede that there is a time and place for more subdued styles, beyond just funerals and courtroom trials, but I don't think you necessarily have to compromise.  You can play it safe while still standing out from the crowd.  So, when I see something that is understated but also very audacious, I get drawn into its gravity.  I've admired this Eva Franco dress for years.  The color palette is simple: gray, white, and hints of orange.  The print is unusual: houses.  And the cut is extremely flattering.  It's all in the details that make this a bold, standout piece. 
Outfit Info: Eva Franco Budapest House Print Dress is thrifted, Calvin Klein heels were gifted 

Thursday, April 9, 2026

Stormy Seasons

****My Easter Sunday was...not the ideal spring day of fun that I had hoped.  I don't often wax religious on the blog, so if it offends you, consider this your notice to scroll past the text and just enjoy the outfit photos or skip this post entirely.****  

Today is one of those posts where the outfit and the text and the theme don't really line up.  I suppose if I were really reaching I could do an April Showers Bring May Flowers sort of thing, but I don't really want to reach, so we'll just stick with the idea that they don't match up.

A family member came to us in crisis mode.  Rent is due, taxes are due, her car broke down on the way to our house and had to be towed to the junk yard, and to top it all off, her cat is at death's door.  There is an old poem by Longfellow that goes, "Into each life some rain must fall, some days must be dark and dreary."  It's a statement with which we could all agree, and I would pair it with when it rains it pours, but this sweet girl was getting hit with a typhoon and according her, it wasn't just a one off; her life was in full on typhoon season.  

We all go through storms.  And sometimes the storms are so awful and so long that when they do finally end, we're never really confident that they're over, always looking over our shoulders in every happy moment to see if there are clouds gathering again.  And the fact is, there probably are clouds gathering again.  Difficult seasons in life are a guarantee and try as we might, we're rarely prepared for them, but the worst thing we can do is to let the happy moments be polluted by worry over the next difficulty.  Enjoy the quiet, the peace, the good, and face the next storm when it comes.

As for my family member, well, God gave us family and community so we never have to face our troubles alone.  So, in addition to words of encouragement, hugs, and dinner, we gave her as much financial help as was possible.  She didn't come to us looking for money, she just came to enjoy Easter dinner.  And I don't mention the help to brag, I say it because I truly believe that prayers are a wonderful thing, but sometimes people need actual help not just good thoughts and well wishes.  And the least Christian thing I could do is to tell someone I love that I hope and pray all their troubles go away while I am sitting on at least a little bit of the means to be their answer to prayer and make some of those troubles go away.  It won't fix all her problems and it won't fix them forever, and I may not always be able to help, but this time I could, so I did.  If nothing else, now she knows that when (not if) she sees the next round of storms gathering, someone will be there to face them with her and when (not if) they finally pass, her family will be there to celebrate with her too.

Outfit Info:  Connie in Parisian Patio Print from Retrospec'd, Purple Heels from BAIT footwear, YeMak cardigan
 

Monday, April 6, 2026

Color is Key

It's officially springtime and I was thankful to see that most of the bulbs I planted last autumn survived the winter and all the hungry critters.  I had a couple of very determined armadillos dig up most of my flower bulbs in the yard last year and was worried they would find this stash out here in the woods, but life found a way.  In fact my yard was looking quite lovely until a surprise freeze hit. 
I don't like to pick flowers, preferring to let them live as long as possible outdoors, but since the nasty weather would surely have done them in, I decided to gather them all up to brighten our indoors for a while.
I am breaking out the spring colors, the brighter the better.  This outfit is a thrifted find from early December 2025.  I've been looking at this Eva Franco dress for years now and finally saw one cheap enough that I decided to get it.  While it would be just as nice to pair this dress with some neutrals, I already had shoes and a cardi that perfectly matched the bold hues in the print and it's time for colors!  I'm trying to have a better attitude about the winter, but I also don't mind saying that I am so happy to see flowers blooming and hear the birds chirping again, and the world being painted in color once more.
 
Outfit Info: Eva Franco Key Dress is thrifted from ThredUp.  Use my link to sign up and save $20 off your first order, shoes from Amazon, cardi from YeMak

Thursday, April 2, 2026

Easter Traditions

As a child I loved Easter more than Christmas.  The traditions were similar in many ways.  They both meant new life, a new color, gifts and treats, and of course, a new dress.  But Easter also brought sunshine and warmer days and it was also the only time of year I could wear a hat and carry a basket as my accessory without getting rueful stares.  How could I not love it more?  I'm in it for the 'fits not the gifts.  In keeping with the spirit of Easter traditions, I've got my bunny dress and my basket purse.  I'm ready for the egg hunts and gooey marshmallow based treats.  Bring on the pastels and florals, the hats and baskets.  Let's celebrate! 
 

Outfit Info: Instant Energy Faux Wrap dress in Strawberry Meadow from ModCloth



Monday, March 30, 2026

Calling All Collectors: McCoy Cookie Jars

The story goes like this:  In the summer of 2023, as I was salvaging everything I possibly could from my late grandparents' house, pulling up flooring and pulling down windows in what was once the coziest kitchen in the world, I suddenly had a memory of a cookie jar that sat on top of the refrigerator my entire childhood.  I remember it vividly because I spent so many years trying to figure out what it was.  It was brown with a black knob on top and red letters across the front.  I remember when I was about six or seven, I learned to read and finally read the word, "Cookies."  Ok, now we're getting somewhere, I thought.  Actually it was so long ago, I can't be sure that's what I thought, but it probably went something like that.  I went to ask my grandma if that's what the jar said and she said yes.  I then asked if there were any cookies in it and she said no.  If I'm not mistaken, my brother and I came to my grandparents' house once when they weren't home and with a little team work, we scaled the side of the fridge and opened that jar just to be sure there were no cookies in it.  There were not.  Just bibs and bobs that didn't have their own place but couldn't be discarded.  Alright, so its purpose was cookies, one mystery was solved, but what was the shape?  I really couldn't tell.  Standing there two summers ago, in the ruins of that happy kitchen, looking at where the fridge used to sit with the cookie jar on top, it suddenly dawned on me.  Oh, my goodness, it was a coffee mill!  I think I actually said it out loud.  At the end of that long, hot day of work, I went home and searched for "coffee mill cookie jar," and the door to this world opened.  The jar immediately popped up (believe it or not, coffee mill cookie jars aren't very common), so I purchased one that was very reasonably priced and in good condition.  The lettered portions tend to flake off over time on these pieces, so finding one in good condition can be tricky.    The jar shown below is now sitting atop my cabinets in my own cozy little kitchen.

At the time of doing this search, I was designing my kitchen.  I asked about the history of this jar and my dad said the jar had always been on the fridge his whole life, so he reached out to his older sister for the backstory.  She said it was a Christmas gift from the factory where my grandmother worked.  One mystery solved!  Since I was down the McCoy pottery/Cookie Jar rabbit hole, I found a number of interesting, whimsical pieces that I thought would look well in my kitchen, and had to seriously fight to keep myself from adding yet another collection to my small home.  In the end, self control did win out, and I only purchased one other McCoy cookie jar, because I just could not resist this cute little kitten in a basket and as previously mentioned, the paint on the letters is gone.
Now that I've peaked your interest with my own cookie jar origin story, let's pause for a little history lesson in ceramics.  In 1848 William Nelson McCoy built a small pottery company in Zanesville, Ohio where they turned out simple, function pieces.  Well before the invention of plastics and eventually Tupperware, ceramic jugs and crocks were still in common household use.  William's potter company was eventually sold to Midland Pottery and later absorbed by Roseville Pottery of which I have inherited several pieces such as this funky 1940s Art Deco style vase.  *Perhaps I'll do a separate post on Roseville, since I just looked up the value of one of the vases and found that it is a collected series and is sought after at auctions.  This type of pottery reminds me of the McCoy version which I inherited and have pictured below.

William's son, J.W. McCoy moved to Roseville, Ohio and opened several like minded pottery companies and profited greatly from turning out a quality product.  However, in 1904, J.W. noticed tastes were changing, people were wanting both form and function in their home goods.  While continuing to open other pottery companies, the McCoy Pottery Company was founded by J.W. McCoy and Nelson (grandson to William) in Roseville, Ohio in 1910.  *more complete history will be linked below*  The company began production of cookie jars in 1933 when Nelson saw that demand for not just pretty but fanciful pieces had only continued to grow, and continued until 1990 when struggling production finally gave up the ghost.  It had changed hands at least twice by then and could never recapture its former heyday glory of the 1950s-1960s when it produced some of its most whimsical designs such as my coffee mill jar.  Seems like that was the heyday for much of the whimsical ceramics I see on the collector's market today.

McCoy distinguished itself from brands like Roseville and others by being very affordable as well as stylish and interesting.  This vase pictured above turned up while i was writing this post and looks very much like the Roseville style (pictured above that), but likely at a fraction of the cost.  I feel certain that this is why my grandmother had so much of this brand of pottery in particular.  My paternal grandparents were always very poor, but my grandmother worked hard and kept a lovely home.  McCoy was made for families like mine.

When my grandmother passed away quite suddenly, her oldest daughter came into the home (my grandfather was still alive and well, by the way and livid at her behavior, but he didn't stop her either) and cleaned out anything of value.  She took anything and everything.  Furniture, photos, glass door knobs, ceramics and all.  It was not because she was sentimentally attached to these things, no, she put everything into a yard sale to try to make a quick buck.  The only things I managed to get were an Avon cameo brooch which I had asked for years before and been given permission to have, and a black and white photo of my grandma as a young woman in a very short dress, showing her midriff, striking a very sexy pose while her head was thrown back in laughter.  All this to say that memories were all I had to go by because not only was my grandmother suddenly gone, but her home was just as suddenly gone too.  I realized during my search that my grandmother had another cookie jar that was pushed further to the back and while it is therefore very fuzzy in my memory, I believe it was this fireplace jar.  

Photo is from this pinterest board
In addition to cookie jars, McCoy continued to make other types of ceramics such as flower pots and vases.  Of which my mother had two surviving pieces of my grandmother's collection, so I reached out.  Sadly, the real McCoy, a green basket weave flower pot, had broken, but a yellow piece remained and my mom said I could have it.  Turns out, there is not stamp on the bottom, so it is likely not a McCoy, which doesn't really matter to me as much as the fact that my grandmother owned and loved it.  Then, during the cleanout of my great-aunt's home after her passing last summer I found a matching vase that is a McCoy, so these two pieces are now proudly displayed near each other in my sunny little loft.

I am a researcher at heart, and as much as I wish that my grandmother had lived long enough to tell me the story behind the things she purchased, I feel closer to her just digging in to the history of these beloved pieces from my childhood.  If you're interested in collecting or learning more, I'm including some links below or you can search the thrift books for titles such as Sanford's Guide to McCoy Pottery or 1993's The Collector's Encyclopedia of Cookie Jars.  Happy hunting!

Further reading and my sources:
https://weekendatthecottage.com/lifestyle/mccoy-pottery/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/McCoy_(pottery)

Thursday, March 26, 2026

All Good Things

Patience is a virtue and all good things come to those who wait, or so the sayings go.  In all my many decades of fashion love, I have learned that more often than not, patience will yield very good things and substantial savings.  There's always the small risk of missing out if you don't buy immediately and pay full retail, but I overwhelmingly I have found that the things I want will either last until the sale or turn up for resale down the road like this pretty little telephone print dress by Porridge/Anthropologie.  I first saw this dress probably 10-ish years ago and have watched and waited for just the right thrifted price/condition combo until I finally found one.
Of course there have been dresses that I felt I would forever regret if I missed out and so opted to pay full price only to more often than not see droves of them on thrift sites for years to come and at a fraction of what I shelled out.  And there have been times I waited for the sale that never came and the thrift bargain that never manifested, which is why I still do not own the Eva Franco Matryoshka dress.  
There are exceptions to every rule, but generally speaking, if you just watch (the fun part), and wait (the not so fun part), the good things will eventually cross your path.
Outfit Info: Anthropologie telephones dress by Porridge, cardi from YeMak, flats are old.

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