The Other Bennet Sister

It is a question universally asked by all Jane Austen lovers and the very first words out of my mouth at the end of the mini-series; What About Mary?  Well, wonder no more fellow Pride & Predj fans, the answer to whatever happened to The Other Bennet Sister is here and it is most satisfying.

While living in England during my university years, I was fortunate enough to befriend two darling English girls who insisted that we have a weekly get together to drink a glass of wine, catch up on the week's goings on and watch an episode of the BBC's 1995 iteration of Pride and Prejudice starring Colin Firth and Jennifer Ehle.  Having never read any Jane Austen and at that point only having seen Clueless and the Gwyneth Paltrow's Emma (widely panned by all my British friends as being "too American"), I agreed to go to this weekly meet up out of a desire for friendship more than a love for the subject matter, but that would soon change.  At the end of the series I was a fan for life and have now read practically everything Ms. Austen wrote and seen most of the television and film versions, but I always felt that Mary Bennet's story was...unfinished.

I can't say that I necessarily related to Mary Bennet, but after watching this continuing story starring Ella Bruccoleri as Mary, I found her experience to be not only relatable but entirely endearing.  Living her life in the shadow of her sparkling, vivacious sisters, Mary needs to be set apart, to find her own way in the world and her own way to shine.

Beyond telling her story with fairness this story humanizes even the most loathsome of villains (I'm looking at you Mr. Collins and Caroline Bingley).  Ok, so she can't be the pretty one, and she's not interested in being one of the flirts, Mary decides she'll be the smart one.  Reminds me of this post about my own youth.  And the best part of all, for Mary Bennet, is that unlike so many of the stories about girls coming of age, there is no glow-up.  Mary doesn't go from duckling to swan.  She goes from being herself, to being more herself, being confident in herself, and finding someone who values her just as she is.

Whether you are an Austen fan who has long wondered if Mary ever found love and happiness, or just someone who enjoys a charming story well told, The Other Bennet Sister is delightful and well worth a watch.