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Thursday, October 17, 2024

Whispering Forest Gown

Mr. Bleu and I are celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary this year and he very sweetly suggested that we have a ceremony to renew our vows.  At first I was so touched and thrilled by the idea that I started planning.  The more I thought about it, the less excited I became.  The first go round was extremely stressful and expensive that I really didn't think I wanted to go through it all again.  However, 20 years of marriage is a thing worth celebrating and it needed to be done right, so in lieu of a ceremony, we went to the chapel that I always wished we had used for our wedding (but we didn't have the  money), bought a new dress and a new suit, and booked an hour with a talented photographer just to capture our moment in a less stressful and more private way.  It was truly wonderful and so much fun.  I couldn't find anyone to do my makeup, but I did get my hair styled and it was a beautiful mild evening. I originally thought I would wear a dress I already owned, but nothing felt quite right for what I wanted.  Fortunately, Teuta Matoshi has never let me down and I found the perfect gown for the occasion.  For a full dress review, click on my YouTube video below.
 Outfit Info:  Whispering Forest Dress from Teuta Matoshi

Wednesday, January 3, 2024

Year Round Glamor with Retro-Stage

Collaborating with Retro-Stage always means something glamorous, but this glittery red 1920s geometric dress from Retro-Stage's 1920's collection is definitely at the top of the list!  The perfect style for making a statement on NYE and all year round.
There are dresses in this world that just do all the right things to make you look amazing and this is one of those dresses.  Seriously, looking at myself in this dress, even I had to take a second glance and go, "Wow!  Is that really me?!"  
Since I never really know what I'll be doing for NYE until the day arrives, it's become a personal policy of mine to have a few options just in case we decide to go out at the last minute and I have to say that this dress is not only the perfect New Year's dress, but my, oh, my it's perfect for any special occasion.
If you've been reading the blog for any significant amount of time then you already know that not only am I a firm believer in having that perfect special occasion dress on hand for whenever and whatever comes your way, but I also believe in creating the special events instead of passively waiting for them to happen.  This dress is definitely making me want to throw my own NYE bash next year, or better yet, throw a 1920s themed party anytime in between, so I don't have to wait a whole year to wear this dress again. 
Let's face it, a dress this gorgeous is just too perfect to sit and wait when I could put together a little something between now and then, and if I do, I'll definitely recommend my guests check out Retro-Stage's 1920s collection.  Soooo many gorgeous dresses at very reasonable prices.
I don't know what this new year will hold, but I am extremely hopeful that there will be more time for friends, family, parties, and making memories in 2024, but no matter what may come, I definitely have the right dress for it thanks to Retro-Stage.

Saturday, June 24, 2023

Toile Part 3: Violette

While Marie-Antoinette adored her private world of Petit Trianon, she was also quite the social butterfly.  And with nearly 300 dresses made each year to accommodate all her social engagements at the theater, at court, and at her own private parties, many from the brilliant dress maker, Rose Bertin, how could she stay at home for too long?  France was totally enamored with the young dauphine and later queen-consort for many years.  If the queen loved it, it was sure to instantly become high-fashion, and the queen loved toile.  I imagine she would have been just as gaga for this pink toile Violette princess dress from JessaKae as I am.  To be sure it has a heavy Antoinette influence.
The last and final installment in our Toile series will explore the high life surrounding Toile fabric as well as the plight of the worker.  As I mentioned in my previous post, Marie Antoinette, the queen of all things couture, whose style endures to this day, simple adored Toile prints, in particular those of Christophe-Philippe Oberkampf whose illustrated toile prints set the standard.  
But, toile didn't end in the French court.  The style was making its way across Europe and England and was picked up by visiting American dignitary, Benjamin Franklin who sent it home to his wife.  
Thomas Jefferson decorated Monticello in Toile, and if these elites were stylin' it, then virtually every fashionable home was following suit.  America's revolution was over and cotton was readily available for printing on what was then called "curious copperplate print," so it was only natural that toile abounded in the newly free America.  The winds of revolution however were just beginning to turn into a tempest in Europe.  
While Oberkampf's ethics in gaining his knowledge of toile production are highly questionable, he was wise to treat his workers rather well and use his illustrations to depict scenes of the workers' life in illustrations such as Les Travaux de la Manufacture" in 1783.  Oberkampf endeared himself to the common man by expressing his knowledge and admiration for the worker.  When revolution swept through France and his devoted patroness, Marie Antoinette, lost her head, Oberkampf's factory remained untouched and production continued as usual. 
Toile may have eventually experienced some decline as a new century emerged, and fresh new takes on home decor and fabric emerged from the likes of the pre-Raphaelites like William Morris and the eventually gave way to the geometric styles of Art Deco, toile has never fully disappeared from the decorative landscape.  It remains a charming timeless symbol of elegance and refinement.

Shopping Info:  Violette Dress-$250 From Jessa Kae

References: 
https://en.chateauversailles.fr/discover/history/great-characters/rose-bertin
https://12tomatoes.com/toile-fabric-history/
https://www.metmuseum.org/art/collection/search/221839
https://fredericmagazine.com/2020/11/toile-jill-lasersohn-fabric-design/

Friday, June 16, 2023

Princess Shoes with NEWBELLA

Oh, for a princess dress!  You know how much I love my princess dresses, but I do admit that when they drag the ground, something has to give: either the dress has to get shorter or I have to get taller. Naturally, I'm done growing, so it only makes sense to get a little taller with a nice platform shoe.  Since this JessaKae dress is completely stunning, and it would be almost a crime for it to sit in the closet, I decided to don my highest shoes and wear it anyway.  I chose these Endless Holiday espadrille wedges from NEWBELLA.  These mirror pieces down the front make them a perfect pairing with a princess dress. 
For my collaboration with NEWBELLA you can save an extra 18% with my code BLEU and get some great summer sandals that also work perfectly with your princess dresses.  A little height, a little sparkle, and a lot of style.  Made of soft faux suede, these Endless Holiday Wedges, (I love that name, by the way!) are comfortable and surprisingly easy to wear despite the height thanks to the wide base of the wedge design.
Never let your best things sit in the closet.  Instead find the right pairings so that you get the most enjoyment from your clothes.  My collaboration with NEWBELLA continues with one more very classically stylish pair of flats, so join me right back here on Sunday for the final installment in this collab.

Shopping Info:  ENDLESS HOLIDAY Ankle Strap Espadrille Wedge Sandals from NEWBELLA. Use code BLEU to save 18% off your purchase. Violette Dress in Pink-$250 from JessaKae.

Saturday, November 5, 2022

The Unicorn Defends Himself

Selkie's Autumn collection for 2022 aptly title Highland Fling and Rose & Crown, features a number of lovely prints, but one that stole my heart even while watching the livestreamed preview was the "The Unicorn Defends Himself."  This print is from a series of tapestries created in the Netherlands circa 1495-1505.  The series depicts the hunt, capture, and death of a unicorn.  While many scholars have hypothesized that the panels are symbolic representations of both Christ's passion for mankind and/or Man's passion for Woman, I think both are bunk.  
To paraphrase Freud, sometimes a tapestry is just a tapestry.  My interpretation is that we should take this drapery drama at face value; it's just the story of a unicorn being captured and killed.  The End.  They're beautiful works of art by supremely skilled craftsmen telling the tragic tale of a mythical creature destroyed by human greed, but filled with symbolism?  No, probably not.
Unicorn mythology has existed in some form for over 4,000 years.  In medieval lore, the unicorn was the epitome of the unspoiled being--wild, free, graceful, majestic--which can only be captured by a being equally revered, the young virgin woman.  And why exactly would a vestal youth be interested in capturing a unicorn?
For profit or prosperity of course.  The unicorn horn was thought to have healing properties for the sick as well as disinfectant abilities, so that if a unicorn horn was placed in poisoned water it would become clean and drinkable.  I'd like to think that such a person would only use that horn for the good of many instead of lining her own pockets, but alas people (even virgin people) are still just people.
Dresses on the other hand, are more akin to unicorns in that they are so lovely and innocent and wholly without motive, they just exist in a state of beauty not just for their own sake but also to elevate their wearer.  That must be why I feel more drawn to them than I do most people.
This particular unicorn dress does not disappoint.  I was worried that the fabric would be coarse, upholstery-like in order to get the print and coloring just right, but oh no, this dress is soft flowy cotton and the colors and print are too beautiful for words.  It's too beautiful for photos even, this dress has to be seen to be believed.
I know I spend a lot of money on clothes and dresses in particular,  but believe me when I say that over the past two years I have reigned in my spending tremendously.  For some time now, most of my time is just saving up; I only spend on the things that are really worth it and this dress is worth it.
Coming in at $400, purchasing this dress was no small matter. In fact, I'd already spent almost all the money I'd saved up by working tons of overtime so I could be ready for whatever the Autumn drop had to offer.  I also figured if I didn't find anything with Selkie I'd try to hit Samantha Pleet's Black Friday sale for a couple of their Illuminated dresses.  The Illuminated dresses by the way are also very reminiscent of medieval artwork.  Guess I have a preference. 
Since I was nearly fund-depleted it took a little maneuvering to get this beauty.  Namely I asked my mom to make up the difference as an early Christmas gift and she agreed.  Thankfully so, because if she didn't I was prepared to sell plasma in order to afford it.  When I showed her the dress, she oooooohed for a moment and then handed over her credit card.  It's good to have that kind of kindred spirit in your life at moments like that, and even better when they have a higher credit limit than you do.
Going into this, I also knew I'd be doing some alterations to the dress since Free People only carried sizes XS-XL and I wear XXS.  For the two previous cotton Ritz dresses I've purchased, I have taken about 9-10"/23-25cm off the bottom of the ruffle so it isn't dragging the ground.  But for this dress I decided to only take off 5"/13cm so instead of dragging it now is just above the ground.
I also took in the bodice about 1"/2.5cm on both sides of the zipper so that it was perfectly fitted to my waist and bust.  The alterations took me about three or four hours and an entire bobbin of green thread to complete because there is so, so, so much ruffle to measure, cut, and hem.  I stayed up late and then finished the following morning before work to get it done.
I used to follow a certain blogger/influencer and I loved how everything looked on her.  Her height was posted on the blog and I would use how things looked on her as a gauge for what they would look like on me, except they never did look as amazing on me.  One day, I saw a post where she wore dress that at four inches shorter than me was right at her knees and on me was well past them.  I realized that she was tailoring her clothes and not mentioning it in her posts and was thoroughly disappointed because it's the little things like that that can make or break an article of clothing and if you'll have to do a little work on something, you should let people know.  
To that end, these photos were taken before any alterations so that you can see how the dress looks and fits.  Even with all this length and it being a smidge too big, I love the look, which is why I decided to leave most of the length on this one.  If you love this print but it's already sold out in your size at Free People and Ivory Sheep, keep checking places like QuinnHop and Revolve.  If you're still not having any luck, don't despair, the second Selkie drop is expected in mid-November.  Join the groups, sign up for Selkie's notifications, and start saving because this unicorn is worth every penny.
With the next Selkie Fall drop likely on the way in the next week or two, there are sure to be a few more unicorn lovelies in that collection.  There will be sweats and a Sugarfrill for certain and maybe even a few surprises.  Since I have exhausted my Selkie Savings, I can only hope that I now have all my favorites and nothing else catches my eye.  Fingers crossed!  And if you haven't captured your unicorn, keep wishing, keep watching, and you're sure to get one soon.
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