Thursday, December 5, 2019

Emerald Elegance

Emerald Bardot Cowl Neck Ruched Midi Dress - Malia from femmeluxefinery.co.uk
Fa La La, the holidays are almost here and this Emerald Bardot Cowl Neck Ruched Midi Dress - Malia from FemmeLuxe is quickly topping my list of 2019's most Christmas Party Dresses.  You know I love FemmeLuxe for their Co-Ords and Satin Dresses, but they also have so many great options for the holidays from Christmas Party Dresses to Glitter Dresses and I'm so excited to share a few with you.  Earlier this week we talked about some tips for avoiding the holiday stress that comes from that inevitable struggle with a little weight gain and finding the right confidence boosting dress for this time of year. 
Emerald Bardot Cowl Neck Ruched Midi Dress - Malia from femmeluxefinery.co.uk
If you missed that particular post, you can find it here and I hope you'll check it out.  For Monday's post I featured the Malia Dress in Rust.  Because this is such a gorgeous style that I wanted to showcase it again today in Emerald in case you're looking for that special style in a more traditional holiday color.  When it comes to shopping for the right dress for all those holiday occasions, I have a few tips to make the experience a little less stressful. 
Emerald Bardot Cowl Neck Ruched Midi Dress - Malia from femmeluxefinery.co.uk
Choose Your Color.  You can't go wrong with black.  Black works for pretty much any occasion any time of year and it is absolutely ok to play it safe with a black dress.  Everyone should have one, right?  I think so.  But, if you want something with a little more kick, don't shy away from colorful selections.  
Emerald Bardot Cowl Neck Ruched Midi Dress - Malia from femmeluxefinery.co.uk
You know I love colorful outfit combos, the brighter the better and last month I started talking about  the topic of Teal.  Teal is such a wonderful color because it pairs well with so many other colors and Emerald is just Teal's sophisticated sister.  Emerald looks great in all seasons, but at this time of year, it's particularly stunning. 
Emerald Bardot Cowl Neck Ruched Midi Dress - Malia from femmeluxefinery.co.uk 
Plan Ahead.  A few years ago, long before my journey through the fashion world began, I was relaxing and enjoying the holidays---like a fool.  My tree was up, my house was decorated, the cookies were baked, all my shopping was done, and my cards were mailed weeks ago.  I was all set...or so I thought.  It was the 18th of December and I got an invite to a formal event that I couldn't refuse and didn't really want to, but I had absolutely nothing to wear. 
Emerald Bardot Cowl Neck Ruched Midi Dress - Malia from femmeluxefinery.co.uk 
With only five days until the big event, I knew that it was pretty unlikely that any online purchase would reach me.  I was new to the area where I lived, but I knew there were no formal wear shops in town, and if there were any shops in nearby towns, I couldn't find them.  Plus, I had no idea what size I wore, because as I mentioned, I knew nothing about fashion.  I'd been wearing the same baggy jeans for years because I used to be one of those who thought I just couldn't wear dresses, so I was totally clueless about what to do. 
Emerald Bardot Cowl Neck Ruched Midi Dress - Malia from femmeluxefinery.co.uk 
In the end I bought two black dresses one extremely formal, one far less formal and hoped one of them would make it in time.  The less formal one arrived first—thank you priority shipping—and I went to the ball looking kind of schlumpier than everyone else, but acceptable.  The other dress arrived a week later and although it would have been perfect for the party, it was a size too big anyway.  Imagine if I'd had the Malia Dress; I would have been the belle of that ball instead of the mouse in the corner.
Emerald Bardot Cowl Neck Ruched Midi Dress - Malia from femmeluxefinery.co.uk   
So, what should I have done?  Plan ahead.  I knew these kinds of events were going to happen, I only wish I'd known about FemmeLuxe back then.  I should have gone shopping months before to find something perfect and in the right size.  But, I didn't.  I think the real reason many people, myself included, don't plan ahead for these kinds of events is because we're afraid we'll spend all that time and effort and then nothing will come along.  If that fear is holding you back, don't let it anymore.  I'd rather have something ready to wear for the occasion if it comes than be scrambling at the last minute and have to settle for something less than.  Besides, if all else fails, create your own special occasion.  Invite everyone you love and get all dressed up to celebrate celebrating.  Why not?!
Emerald Bardot Cowl Neck Ruched Midi Dress - Malia from femmeluxefinery.co.uk 
Give Yourself a Gift.  I know you probably think I'm going to say the beautiful dress is a gift, and it is, but the best thing you can do when dress shopping is love your shape and dress it like you do.  Choosing the right dress that makes your body look its best is an excellent gift, and I think the Malia Dress is Emerald is just the right dress for the job, but loving your shape, how you're made and who you are is going to give you the confidence you need to wear that dress the way it was meant to be worn.
Emerald Bardot Cowl Neck Ruched Midi Dress - Malia from femmeluxefinery.co.uk
 Happy Holidays!

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