"Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans." ~ John Lennon
While I am in no way a fan of John Lennon, his music, his life, or his hollow absurd philosophies, even a stopped clock is right twice a day and to that end, in this one particular instance, J.L. got it right. Life is what happens while you're distracted and busy trying to muddle through.
There are seasons of life, of course. Some are busier or stormier than others. It seems to me that ever since my children have been old enough to walk and talk, the busy part never lets up. And recently, we as a family went through a very difficult time that I hope, after eight weeks is finally reaching an end. During that time, there were many sleepless nights, lots of silent worrying, and a few frustrated outbursts as we struggled together and alone to deal with all the things that were thrown at us at once.
Even in the midst of all that, I managed to find moments of peace, moments that reminded me to step out of the chaos and remember that there was a great big world outside of my troubles and all this would pass with time.
So, in the middle of the physical malady, transportational collapse, and the absolutely needless heartache caused by spoiled, selfish Texans, I took time to step away from it all and sit in front of my window to look at the world beyond and enjoy. I cooked a few of our favorite meals, I doled out a few extra hugs for my children and Mr. B and I shared the blessings of our farm with co-workers.
The only time when all hope is truly lost, is when you stop trying. It's all over in that moment. So, the very best thing to do when the darkness is all around you is to be a light, even a very small light if that's all you can muster for the moment and it only shines enough for the one step in front of you. Shine that light, take that step, keep moving forward, and don't forget to see the precious and beautiful things all around you as you go.
There is always something demanding your time, your attention, your worry, your care. Step back from it as much as you can and learn to enjoy life even when it's hard, even when it hurts, before it all slips away while you were busy getting by, getting through, and making other plans.
Stepping back to get the overview and finding silence again, sounds to me like a form of meditation. I liked to read your differentiated thoughts. All the Best, Volker
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